Perhaps the person we turn out today are the results of factors we never took care to notice. The surrounding, the people around us somehow bring the concoction of our behaviours into existence. I always believe that man are born innocent, but to a world far from innocence. A lot others will very well disagree with this credo of mine.
I judge people. A lot. Because I was brought up to believe that strangers never come with good intentions till he/she proves total probity, and with that i managed to save myself from bad things( thanking my parents), but good things are forsaked as well i suppose? perhaps i could have made extra friends? perhaps i could have at least learn something from that few minutes of friendship even though it's with a stranger that i probably wouldn't meet again.
i should probably open up more, to judge less or not at all. Breaking from the chain of conventional beliefs might render some risks, but i think it's worth it.
"When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself."-- Wayne Dyer
"It is harder to crack a prejudice than an atom."-–Albert Einstein
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."-- Mother Teresa
1 comment:
deep down inside ya,i know u wanna trust them strangers,just dat somehow,u have been hurt once,hence u start to judge them......
but.....well...right now,u already have more than enough frens who's able to move mountains:)
teikywengy
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